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Tuesday 20th April

Well, what a day I have had! It started by my wanting to fill the boat with water but there was a boat between me and the water tap. My hose just wasn’t  quite long enough so I had to exit my mooring without bumping the boat ahead which was easier said than done. Took me about 20 minutes of going back and fore (there was also a boat close behind me) and each time I pushed off at the front to get the boat out at an angle I couldn’t get to the stern quick enough to steer! R told me afterwards that I should have pushed off from the middle of the boat, https://we.tl/t-oKfYZNwHoC?src=dnlwhich did make alot of sense! I then had to get in front of the boat blocking me from the water but that was easier said than done as I almost straddled the canal! Eventually all was good and I hopped onto the towpath to pull the boat into the side and started filling up. I was awaiting the arrival of two guests who were coming to enjoy a day’s boating and help me with the 8 locks ahead. A CRT man was standing by the lock near to the watertap and I thought how lovely that he was there to help with the lock gates. How wrong was I! He was there to stop the lock being used. The next lock down was discovered to have a faulty paddle (hence why the lady I helped yesterday had found it impossible to open the gate) and so the pound had to be drained before the CRT could work out how to do the repair. It could take any time from half a day to a week! Meanwhile 5 or 6 boats were also wanting to go down the lock flight and there were quite a few disgruntled boaters. The situation was not helped by ‘health and safety’ regulations that delayed the repair being carried out. My friends F and AP had arrived all eager to learn about operating the locks and were disappointed to hear the news that we might not be able to go anywhere. We could not even turn in the nearby turning circle and go for a cruise in the opposite direction because our boat was longer than 50ft. We were well and truly stuck. Making the best of a bad job F went off to the Napton village stores, a cornucopia of delight and came back armed with many delicious goodies for a picnic lunch. We were blessed with warm calm weather so it was no hardship sitting on the canalside. It just wasn’t what was supposed to happen. I think I should be grateful this is the first time in six months that our plans have been totally thwarted. AP was very interested to see the damaged paddle and the extent of the problem. It was fascinating seeing the pound drained and it amazed me how shallow the water usually is. Eventually we got the all clear. It was about 5.30pm and we had been waiting 6 hours to move! AP and F were keen to do some locks and a kind boater, who was also in a hurry to get going because he was a policeman, due on duty tomorrow, taught them what to do as I stayed aboard helming the boat. We managed to complete about half the flight of locks before AP felt he should go home. At least he had some time on the water rather than just sitting beside the boat eating a picnic. Rather a long way to travel just for that!

What today taught me is that canal life is unpredictable and you can’t always achieve what you set out to do. Either you get frustrated and cross or you accept that what will be will be and you go with the flow. I was just relieved that the problem was sorted relatively quickly and am looking forward to completing the flight tomorrow.

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Monday 19th April

Another sunny day. What a difference a bit of natural sunlight makes to both mood and energy. The boat was a bit chilly first thing so I indulged myself with an hour of central heating which also heated the water,  but sitting outside was then delightful in the midst of the countryside. I am recognising some landmarks from when we travelled along the canal in the opposite direction but I find that comforting, rather than boring and as I have mentioned before, the change in the season makes a huge difference.

As it’s Monday, mid morning is Baby Breathe on Zoom, which was enjoyable and an hour soon flashed by, chatting away. Not so many mum’s today, unsurprising as the weather was so good. I expect, as most of them also have a toddler, they were out at the park.

The wind was negligible so casting off from the side at midday was easy and with no locks for a couple of miles I could enjoy the meander.  I didn’t pass many other boats which was just as well since a couple of the bridges were on really tight corners and it was tricky pulling the boat around without getting entangled in the reeds or worse, stuck in the mud. A bit of reversing occasionally seemed to help free the propellor of debris and slightly altered the trajectory of the boat so I managed to steer myself out of any trouble. I do sometimes look with longing at the 45 – 50ft boats thinking how much easier they would be to manoeuvre but of course you then lose living space so it’s a toss up as to what is more important. I didn’t travel far today as I wanted to stop at the locks at Marston Doles, just before the Napton flight. Tomorrow help is arriving to tackle the 8 locks and as there’s a water tap before entering the first lock I thought it would be an ideal opportunity to top up the tank. On the map there was a mooring sign so I imagined a long stretch of boats all able to use chains to moor up, or better still a few mooring rings along the towpath.  As is my habit,  I thought it best to briefly moor alongside the water’s edge before deciding where to stop for the evening but the couple of boats already tied up were having to use pins as there was no metal edging. I turned the corner and ahead saw two boats with a space between that looked just long enough for me to slide in between them and they were moored with chains, a great bonus for someone who has yet to successfully bang pins securely into the towpath! I edged my way in without touching the moored boat immediately to my left, which I was pleased about and then was thankful to see the occupant of said boat coming out to help me tie up. I am continually grateful for the kindness of the boating community, offering help without being asked and not expecting anything in return. As it transpired there was only room for three moored boats on chains before bollards on the side indicated mooring only for filling up with water. Then the lock was around the next corner with no space for any further boats. I was so pleased to be able to moor where I did, an advantage of stopping the day’s travelling early. The later you stop for the night the more difficulty you have finding a space. With the canal getting busier travel times are often slower, with queues for locks and the negotiating of safely passing boats on narrow stretches of water, delaying one’s end time for the day.

A bite to eat and then I went for a walk through fields that would bring me back on the towpath, thus a circular route. Neatly marked on my map the footpaths were impossible to spot in reality and even using Google maps I found myself standing in the middle of a field unsure of which direction to walk! R is so good at working out direction from the sun but that doesn’t seem to help me! Eventually I spied a distant bridge and hoped the canal was underneath it, which it was! A beautifully maintained and tidy boat was moored in the sunshine and remarking on their lovely boat, the couple on board said they part owned it and they were the first ones to use it this year. They were in no hurry to move around the network, just wanting some peace and solace after an extremely exhausting year. The lady was a child counsellor of many years standing and had had the busiest of years with more children than ever needing support and not enough trained counsellors to meet the need. Added to the stress of her work last year she had had a full knee replacement.  Then her 5 year old grandson, giving her a playful rugby tackle, had broken her shoulder! This was followed by breaking her leg in the autumn whilst on the boat before the second lockdown. She had the presence of mind to look up the best hospital to go to dependent on what the covid situation was like and decided the  safest option was the local small one closest to her home town. Before they could reach their car this couple had to turn the boat around in a turning circle which necessitated travelling the flight of locks I am doing tomorrow, turning the boat at the first opportunity and then travelling the flight of locks in the opposite direction to then travel home in their car!! All this took a deal of time as the husband had to do all the locks on his own whilst his wife dosed herself on painkillers and eased the swelling with bags of frozen peas! Apparently they arrived at the hospital at 1930, just before the doors were shut for the night as they didn’t have a 24hr A&E and were taken in, x rayed, boot issued and leg break sorted all within 35 minutes! As if this were not enough a few weeks later she caught Covid so badly that she should have been hospitalised but just managed to stay at home, her symptoms made worse I think by asthma. As a shielded person she had been nowhere and thinks she caught it from opening quite a few parcels that arrived at the same time from the Post Office where a lot of the staff had gone off sick with Covid. She had many stories to tell, such as when she had her knee replacement one night she was only able to take paracetamol because the nurse signed her chart saying she had had a morphine shot, forgot to administer it and then left the shift for the day. Because it looked as though this lady had had her morphine the night staff could not give a ‘second’ dose! And then she said that when her stitches were being removed a nurse, wearing protective gloves, accidentally cut  through the glove and their finger, spraying blood over this lady’s wound! What are the chances of that happening! If anyone needed a couple of restorative weeks on the canal it was this lovely couple and it was amazing to hear their stories.

A cup of tea and cake, a chat with R and the night was yet young so I decided to take the rubbish bag to the CRT services at the end of the lock flight. I also wanted to see if The Folly pub was open as it would be a great place for an outdoor lunch tomorrow. Sadly I discovered it’s not reopening until 17th May. Looking at the map the locks looked reasonably close together so I wasn’t expecting the long pounds I encountered! I hadn’t really registered that the two Marston Doles locks are not part of the Napton flight so the distance between them was probably a couple of miles. However it was such a beautiful evening that I didn’t mind the walk, it was just I arrived back at the boat much later than I had anticipated and darkness was falling. The towpath was not particularly safe with many a narrowing and potential danger of inadvertently losing one’s footing down one of the gaps in the path so I knew I needed to arrive home before nightfall.

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Sunday 18th April

Such a beautiful day to be on the water. I didn’t start moving until midday because I attended Zoom church first. I walked along the towpath and helped a single handed boater with the lock gate during the coffee time, so was able to show everyone the view of endless fields with baby lambs and a lock in action. Walking on to the bridge I met an amazing older gentleman who was in the process of walking the route of the Seven Shires Way – a 234 mile walk around the county boundaries of Oxfordshire using public rights of way. He has walked it 3 or 4 times before and this time the purpose is to update the details of the walk as written in a book by Elaine Steve and to replace any missing waymarkers. An updated edition of the book is going to be published.  He also was very proud of his ‘centurion’ badge, proof that he has walked 100 miles in 24 hours. He was quite a character!

I set off on the eleven mile stretch of lock-less canal which twists and turns through the Oxfordshire countryside. Trees breaking forth into blossom, lambs frolicking in the fields, birds tweeting. It was all very lovely and relaxing apart from the fact I had to keep alert for any boats coming towards me. There is one incredibly narrow stretch. It used to be a tunnel, before the tunnel collapsed. So now although open to the elements it is still problematic if you meet a boat coming in the opposite direction.  This happened once. Up ahead I saw two boats and a moored boat.  I realised there was no way I could pass the moving boat if we met where the stationary boat was moored so I just had to wait and hold Wind Rose steady in a straight line. This proved quite easy until I realised the reason why was because I was stuck in the mud! The water level was very low. As the boat passed me he offered to tug me free but infact I was able thankfully to dislodge myself. The second boat ahead had pulled into the side so I could safely proceed. The wonderful smell of cooking sausages and bacon hit me as I drew close by and I  discovered the boaters had stopped to  bbq on the roof of their boat. Apart from this encounter I saw very few other boaters out and about and was able to moor up in an idyllic spot luckily with mooring rings. I have yet to need to hammer pins into the towpath. Am not sure if I will find that very easy.

Watched a film with Bill Nighy who I really like and I think I realise why – now that R has grown his hair he bears a striking resemblance to him! Not sure the film was that good but it passed the evening. I put the heating on for an hour or so before going to bed and filled a hot water bottle. Both ensured that I didn’t feel nearly as chilled as the night before.

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Saturday 17th April

Had help doing the locks from Cropredy to Claydon – there were 8 in total. So many more boats in evidence and it’s fun arriving at a lock just as someone is leaving so that you can glide straight in! The weather was warm and gloriously hot in the sun. It made me want to spring clean the boat and tidy all the surfaces. It doesn’t take long to accumulate stuff. I walked into Claydon, a pretty village with a church and nothing else of note – no pubs or shops so a good thing I have everything I need on the boat. Having said that, my diet today has been rubbish. Crumpet as usual for breakfast, a hummus and pumpernickel roll for lunch and a salmon pate and cucumber toastie for supper, followed by 70% chocolate. Not good! Too much bread. Returning to the boat along a quiet country road the silence was suddenly broken by the roar of motorcycles. I also passed at least three separate groups of Duke of Edinburgh award students.

I watched the funeral of Prince Philip and then Zoomed with my Friday friends a day late. All of us remarked how surprised we were to feel so sad thinking perhaps it is the Queen we are sorry for. I wonder if his death links us with the death of our parents, a similar generation and the realisation that we are now the oldies! A friend remarked on the amazing lives so many of our parents led and how much they achieved in comparison to us. Perhaps the war had something to do with that. They were incredibly resilient. I wonder if the pandemic will build resilience into our young people and they will change the world for the better. Only time will tell what legacy will be left. There’s no doubt at the moment mental health issues are becoming more and more prevalent in the young and perhaps we should be doing something to help. We have done so much to prevent covid overwhelming the NHS. Perhaps we will have to do the same with the mental health of our nation and work out some strategies for supporting those who are struggling before they tip over the edge.

A couple of people sent me messages asking how my talk went over Zoom for the FS. It was difficult to answer because delivering a talk to a screen with no human interaction leaves you unable to assess the response to what you are saying. You crack a joke and have no idea if anyone laughed! It was good for me though to put a timeline to our narrowboat experience and to get clear in my head the purpose of our trip to date, God’s part in all that and where He may be leading us in the future. Quite exciting really!

I found myself vacuuming the boat and washing the galley floor about 8pm. The thought went through my head – what happened to all the Saturday night supper parties? They seem a lifetime ago! Watched a film called Hope Springs on Netflix starring Merryl Streep which is one of their new releases. Otherwise all very very quiet and dark. No street lights, no trains, no traffic. Just fields and locks and wildlife. At least two bumblebees buzzing around. The trees are looking much greener than on our journey down and I saw some beautiful tulips on a verge when I walked into the village at lunchtime.

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Friday 16th April

Friday prayers got me up and about early (for me – everything’s relative!) and then off to Morrison’s, which I discovered was less than a five minute walk from the boat. A heavy backpack and carrying two heavy shopping bags meant the walk back felt a lot longer! Turning on the boat engine for half an hour meant I could have a nice hot bath and hair wash before setting off for the Banbury laundrette, the one I had used on our previous visit, so it was nice to be recognised and have a chat. Found a takeaway coffee nearby and a bench to sit on conscious of my still damp hair and warnings ringing in my ears from long ago of the dangers of catching a chill from not drying your hair properly.  A bit of an issue on the boat with no hair dryer! I needed to finish my talk for the evening FS meeting so was grateful for the lack of other distractions. The joy I feel arriving back aboard with my dry clean laundry has not abated – I  realise it’s one of my week’s highlights.  How sad is that although it could be a reminder of how much pleasure we can get from ordinay everyday things. A bit like enjoying a cup of coffee in an outdoor cafe chatting with a friend.  Funny to think how much we took that simple pleasure for granted!

Youngest son P arrived to assist me with a few locks and it was so good to see him. We moved the boat to the water point and whilst it was filling I gave P my credit card suggesting he have a very quick browse in Debenhams, with its 70% off, closing down sale, as it was literally a half minute walk away. Meanwhile as the boat was filling I noticed a boat just about to exit the lock that I then wanted to go through, so I asked them not to shut the gates. The possibility arose in my mind that some other boat may come from behind and ‘steal the lock’ whilst I was still using the water tap. I didn’t really want the delay of a boat going through before me as I would need to then empty the lock etc. It was a toss up between filling the tank to the brim or cutting the fillup slightly short. My mind was made up as another boat came into sight! I quickly disconnected the hose, plonked it on the bow, grabbed my mid rope and started pulling Wind Rose towards the open lock so that the boat slightly behind could see I was there first. It was akin to the same feeling you get when you think someone is going to pinch your car parking space! Seeing I was alone (P  having not returned  from spending my money in D!) one of the crew from the boat behind me immediately came and offered to work the lock which was incredibly kind and made me feel rather bad for not wanting them to get there before me! As a quid pro quo I said that I would wait for their boat to come up in the lock before opening the swing bridge that we had to go through. P had not yet returned so there was no point in rushing and I couldn’t reach him on his phone! However within a few minutes he appeared looking very pleased with his purchases – all bargains! And my card hadn’t melted so that was good although he did say he had had to remember my PIN because he was 10p over the limit of just being able to tap the card on the machine! As he went to get the windlass to operate the swingbridge we saw someone already there and I realised a boat was coming through from the other direction.  A ‘Picadilly Circus’ moment as three boats had to dance around in a small pound careful not to bash each other!

Once through the bridge there was a long narrow slow stretch of canal with boats moored either side and again we had traffic coming in the other direction. Quite exciting really after having had almost exclusive use of the canal for so long! I saw we were gaining speed on a boat up ahead travelling in the same direction. Another first as I don’t remember ever having to queue before or adjust my speed to keep a safe distance from the boat in front.  Eventually he sensed we were in a bit of a hurry and finding a wide stretch of canal stopped his boat and motioned for us to overtake which was very nice of him and I thanked him profusely. We were on a bit of a time schedule. The problem was that we were heading to Cropredy and needed to get there in good time to temporarily moor the boat, then walk along the towpath to see if we could find enough space to moor the boat with internet access. It was intermittent and the first good signal came after rising in another lock. So P stayed by the space so as not to lose it. Meanwhile I hurried back to the boat and navigated it along a stretch of canal chocca with moored boats so I could only go really slowly and then had to operate the lock, although P left his lookout point to come and assist. Eventually we moored up and I heaved a sigh of relief. There was about an hour before my FS talk began and I could relax knowing we had connection. If I am technically able I will download the talk, as it was recorded, or post a link. It chimes in with this blog as it’s the back story of how and why we are here and where we think we may be going!

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Thursday 15th April

Very tempted by a duvet day on the boat but recounting the fire alarm story to R he said the smoke detector needed a new battery and it should be bought today so that put paid to not getting dressed and staying aboard all day! I did infact have to go and get a new battery fitted for the watch I now have that belonged to mum. It stopped working during lockdown as did the watch battery fitters but I noticed a mobile van and man in Banbury that would do the job so I guessed he would also sell me a 9v battery for the alarm. How right I was! Before leaving the boat I had noticed the rubbish bag was almost overflowing so armed with the CRT services key I stopped en route to deposit the rubbish and got into conversation with a man on a hireboat who asked if I thought it was ok for him to leave his boat whilst the water tank was filling. Remarking I  didn’t think it would take long to fill, he assured me it would be at least an hour –  the tank had actually run dry mid shower!!  I paid another visit to the zero waste shop and had great fun refilling and repurposing all my empty containers with freshly ground coffee, freshly ground Nutella etc and even bubble bath into an empty Neals yard blue glass bottle, so looks very posh even if the bubble bath inside isn’t quite so! Managed to get more bubblebath outside the bottle than in, so it was quite a sticky process, but the shop assistant was very helpful and remembered me from my last visit as she also lives on a narrowboat so we had a good chat.

I actually ended up having a very productive day in that looking at my emails it transpired our speaker for tomorrow night’s Zoom Filling Station meeting is ill and so has had to pull out, very apologetically and very last minute! Having had a clear day, in which I was hoping to do some writing on the subject of ‘grace’, I ended up writing a talk for tomorrow’s FS meeting! Done in relative haste, I hope it will still manage to speak to those attending about this narrowboat adventure and the part I feel God is playing in it. In particular, the God given moments, or ‘instances’ where I feel he has been at work and the occasions when I have felt guided, led and strengthened by the Holy Spirit when faced with things beyond my remit or control. I think we all have those wherever we are living or whatever we are doing! Being on the boat without R, I find comfort from my belief that actually God is with me so I am not as alone as I think or fear!

It always surprises me how fast the time goes when writing and actually how time consuming it is. It was 7pm before I came up for air! It’s easy to lose sight of time when outside is so light. I found some veg and cooked a stir fry, adding some precooked instant noodles, so supper was done in a flash and eaten just as fast because not only was I hungry, I  hate eating cold food. I even made some egg custard as a treat and then settled to watch ‘Line of Duty’. I was rather disappointed that there was only one episode to catch up on. I was certain I had missed two. I even Googled to make sure it wasn’t just that I couldn’t find episode 5 on iplayer! It did mean I also had time to watch the first episode of the Great British Sewing Bee, which I love! Meanwhile the boat was getting chillier and chillier as I sat in my ‘snug’ wrapped in a blanket, knowing I was going to have to extricate myself and get into my proper bed. I resorted to the hotwater bottle, the same one that had leaked all over H a few nights earlier. I was so cold I took the risk and just hope I don’t wake up in a wet patch!

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Wednesday 14th April

Started the day with a few phone calls, one with good news re sub letting the small flat my mum lived in – it looks like we might have a new tenant, which will be a weight off my mind. Then late morning my friend S arrived and we went to find an outside coffee shop where we chatted non stop for two hours! It felt decidedly normal and it was good to see more people milling around. Somehow I have got so used to the face masks I don’t register them any more. On the whole people seem to be very mindful of one another and so we had a very pleasant morning watching the world go by and putting the world to rights!

Returning to the boat I came down to earth with a bump as I realised how full the Elsan cassette was and had no option but to trundle it along to the Elsan point and do the business, which R very gentlemanly normally does! I had remembered to take a mask which definitely helps. There were also plenty of chats to be had with narrowboaters who are just on a boat for a week or two. I noticed the canal was much busier today. As I settled into my ‘snug’ area for a 4pm Zoom call, that actually lasted a couple of hours (good thing I had done some Joe Wicks beforehand or I might have seized up!), I was conscious of many boats passing. Each time a boat went by, my boat was jostled by the wash and bumped noisily against the canal edge!

The evening whizzed by and eventually when I felt a chill in the air I took myself to bed rather than light the fire. I had eaten a rather strange supper of leftovers, starting with some cherries. I was told, as a child, that Australian’s always eat their dessert before their main course, which I am sure is not true, but it still came to mind today as I ate my food back to front!

No pictures – I didn’t take any! Must be a first since this trip began. I never was in the habit of taking photos but it’s something that has given me a surprising amount of pleasure in the last few months and apparently this phone has quite a good camera, not something I considered when I bought it.

Settling for the night after a long conversation with both R and then my brother, I was startled awake by the fire alarm beeping above my bed. As there was no fire evident (I did get up and thoroughly check the boat!) I thought perhaps it was also a carbon monoxide alarm as you can get a 2 in 1 device. That worried me far more as you obviously can’t see carbon monoxide! I double checked that all the rings on the gas cooker were off and even opened another window so that more fresh air would come into the boat. Then I settled down to sleep again, only to be disturbed every five or so minutes by the alarm sounding yet again. It was very irritating and deciding to dismantle it for the night, I struggled to get it open to remove the battery. I even tried ringing R to see what else he would suggest. Sensibly he’d gone to bed without his phone nearby as I don’t think he’d have appreciated being woken up at 0045! I did leave him a Whattsapp just in case I didn’t wake up so he’d realise I had died of carbon monoxide poisoning. Such is one’s imagination in the middle of the night!! However it’s amazing what you figure out when you have to and as the thought of a continuous intermittent fire alarm throughout the night did not appeal, I fiddled around with it until at last the cover came off and I could dislodge the battery. If I’d been at home I would have had no hesitation in using brute force and breaking the cover if necessary but you can’t do that when it doesn’t belong to you. Patience is required. At the beginning of our trip we knocked the alarm off the roof at the far end of the boat and R had to replace the whole unit with a new one, which required drilling holes etc. Did not want a repeat performance! It probably just requires a new battery but rather unfortunate timing to alert me to that! I had gone to bed dressed in pj’s, a gilet and wrapped a throw around me before getting under the duvet to keep warm all night. Every time the alarm beeped I had to disentangle myself from my warm cocoon, silence the thing and then wrap myself up again. What a palaver!

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Tuesday 13th April

Made my own crumpet with peanut butter and banana – somehow doesn’t taste quite the same made without love! (just to say, having become something of a crumpet expert, Morrison’s 6 of the best, ‘new improved recipe’ crumpets, are hard to beat!). Had to remember to clean the ash from the woodburner- another first. I think R has consistently done this every day. Quite a dusty dirty job however hard you try to keep your hands clean! Noticed the rubbish bin is getting full – another task R usually keeps an eye on. We have certainly become used to teamwork, the ‘blue’ and the ‘pink’ jobs. Probably terribly un ‘pc’ for me to say that but it’s as it is, as it always has been and hopefully will go on into the future being. We have always split division of labour and R naturally takes the lead on all the jobs I don’t want to do unless absolutely necessary! Like being alone on the boat and therefore having no choice but to get my hands dirty. Quid pro quo – he gets a reasonably healthy cooked meal most days. I bet he’s home now eating all the verboten foods I try to avoid buying!!

The boat needed topping up with diesel and gas. I find it unnerving not knowing how empty the diesel tank is. Even if we are not moving much, we still use the diesel for the central heating and hot water. At least we have two gas cylinders so we can replace the empty one as and when. Fortunately ‘Dusty’ the diesel boat passed by as I was, unusually for me, cleaning the windows. The wonderful sunny day showed up how filthy the windows had become. Obviously I could only do one side so I hope I remember to complete the job when we are next moored up on opposite towpath! 88litres of diesel and a gas cylinder set me back £108 (red diesel being cheaper than the diesel on the garage forecourt) but I think that’s our last fillup before we leave the boat.

D arrived from London armed with homemade flapjack and soda bread with pecan, cheese and onion. Both were absolutely delicious! The weather was warm and sunny and we had a good walk around Banbury Town centre enjoying the varied architecture, in particular a large 18th century domed church. D, being an architect, appreciated what the town had to offer. In its heyday it must have been quite something. It now has a rather faded elegance in the old part of the town.

H found it easier to sleep in the bed made up in the dinette area rather than on the sofa. She used all the rugs she could find to make her bed extra warm and comfy along with her sleeping bag. Removing her sleeping bag to take home she suggested I continue to keep the dinette area as a ‘snug’ reminding me there were plenty of cushions stored under the sofa to supplement the pillows. I have to say it is rather a cosy space!

After D and H and the hampster returned to London the boat seemed rather quiet and empty. R visited our friends J and M in their garden and we all had a Zoom call together, me snug on the boat. I really was quite content to be able to see and hear them, without physically being with them all and it didn’t hinder our conversation, so although far away, I didn’t really feel I was missing out. Except for the wine – it looked like they were all enjoying a nice bottle of white whilst I am trying to develop a habit of no alcohol when alone on the boat. It gives my liver a rest! The joy of the canalside pubs is something we have missed out on, due to Covid, but hopefully we will see a few reopening in this our last fortnight and we will be able to relax in the pub gardens, R with a decent pint of local ale and me sampling a craft gin!

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Monday 12th April

Fitful night’s sleep wondering how R’s back would be in the morning.  I was concerned it would be too painful for him to sit in the car and drive home. However he managed to get up and dressed reasonably easily and took a couple of anti inflammatories after breakfast before we set off for the train station. Luckily, I noticed a vital key was missing, the one that opens the door to the Elsan and the watertaps. It usually hangs on a specific hook in the boat. R couldn’t find it and we needed to get walking so I resigned myself to trying to get hold of a spare. However, arriving at the station in plenty of time, R dug deeper in his pockets and found the key – relief! His train journey was 15 minutes, followed by a half hour walk along a snowy towpath (no snow to be seen here!) where he was reunited with our car and drove home. Our youngest, P, has been isolating at home prior to a hospital procedure, which R drove him too, both I hope wearing masks, with P in the back. Although his appointment was at 2pm he found himself moved to the end of the list because he had taken his Covid test a day too early. So R waited in the end until 6pm to take him home. I suppose he and I are so used to small spaces it didn’t worry him to sit in the car for most of that time. He did go for a walk but even so five hours wait when you think it may be 2!

Meanwhile back on the boat I joined the Baby Breathe meeting where we ended up talking potty talk. I reflected that recently I have been referring to the boat as my ‘baby’ in lieu of any grandchildren and thought how funny that invariably boat talk ends up as potty talk also!

Leaving the boat to go shopping we met our new neighbour moored up beside us. He was just realising the two day mooring rule and I was telling him my plans to move through Banbury staying in new spots every two days. Alternatively, if we both reversed our boats 100 yds back, under a bridge, we would be at a 14 day mooring spot. The disadvantage is hearsay that the youths of the town, because it’s quite near the railway station, hang out nearby and can be a bit troublesome. Nevertheless we decided if we move together we could keep each other company and hope for the best that all will be well. The advantage for me is that I am still the right side of the watertap and Elsan and can make use of the facilities again before I leave Banbury. Always having to think strategically! With R away and friends coming for day trips next week to help me move the boat, I want to stay here until Friday. By then I should also have a laundry load of washing to do and a substantial fruit and veg shop as going north from here, there are relatively few supermarkets so choice will be limited.

I was very pleased that I moved the boat in reverse without too much hassle and I managed to tie the ropes the way I have been taught, but never before had to do  without R present to direct me! H and I then set off for Superdrug – she wanted a home testing kit for Covid so I picked one up for R and myself in case we need it. Haven’t quite got my head around when it’s best to make use of the kits but I know my brother in Austria has been having to test himself twice a week because of his job. Debenhams was open and as it’s closing down there are many bargains to be had. A very short queue and we were in, but there was little joy in walking around a store with a mask on, aware that quite a few people were in the store at the same time. It may not have been too many but we just aren’t used to people at the moment! So we left, realising that we didn’t much want to browse for bargains and that shopping didn’t feel quite the same anymore.

Fresh air and a walk along the canal and then back through the park, stopping at an open air cafe, sitting at a table outside enjoying refreshments, felt almost normal. The boat when we returned was a touch chilly but too early for the stove to be lit so we snuggled under duvets and coped pretty well! I was researching a new Le Creuset casserole to replace the one that got left in our Aga for about a month! Not sure if that was my doing or my son G when he was at home but suffice to say a replacement is over £200!!! The largest oval Le Creuset is £500 which left me staring at the screen in amazement!

H took control of the stove at 4pm and for the rest of the evening we complained of being too hot. She watched a documentary about the Queen and Princess Margaret which painted Margaret in a much more favourable light than I remembered and it left me feeling particularly sad for the Queen who lost both her mother and sister within weeks of each other.

I wanted to watch ‘Line of Duty’ – two episodes behind and my ideal opportunity with R away on terra firma. By the time I had finished the blog for the day it was after 11pm so I restrained myself. I can always watch it in the middle of the night if I have one of my 3am wakeups!

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Sunday 11th April

Talking of Prince Philip in yesterday’s blog, today we remembered my dad, who died 22 years ago on 11th April,  which happened also to be Low Sunday in the Christian church calendar, just as today is. So I sent a message to my siblings that as well as the double sherry in memory of mum and her friend Jeannie, we should add a tot of whisky to toast dad!

Zoom church was quite short  with no Zoom coffee time as a mark of respect for Prince Philip. We were therefore able to get going  promptly on our journey to Banbury, this time with H on the helm. She soon got the hang of it and steered the boat confidently. I took a turn to operate some of the locks and before long we were approaching the outskirts of Banbury. H remarked how much better she felt mentally from a couple of days on the boat especially having to concentrate on steering. It put her mind into a different headspace and all the fresh air and beauty around her lifted her spirits. I do think being on the water is a great tonic for life, especially for the young struggling with anxiety and depression. If we return for a few months in September I would really like to offer retreats to those who would benefit from a few days away from the rat race.

Banbury was awash with mooring space, far more so than when we were previously here. I soon worked out why. All the town moorings are limited to two night stays between April and November. This stipulation has not been enforced during lockdown but from tomorrow, 12th April, lockdown ceases on the canals and everyone has to follow the CRT rules or face a fine. We moored up just before the watertap and Elsan and left the boat to do a bit of shopping for food, leaving H to enjoy a shower with all the hot water. On our return we moved the boat to the watertap and filled up the nearly empty tank and then we reversed back to our mooring space. H made an anchovy risotto. It was a luxury for me not to have to cook. I don’t think I have mentioned our extra guest, Sensi, H’s pet hampster. As there was no one to look after him in London he also forms part of our bubble. Sweet little thing he is, but it’s still a bit disconcerting having this animal walk all over you and make more noise in the dark, when he appears to wake up! His hutch sawdust adds an extra layer of debris around the boat. Not much point in hoovering until our house guests depart!

A Songs of Praise on Zoom, followed by an Endeavour episode and a reasonably early night as R has to journey home tomorrow. Just as he got into bed he let out a yelp of pain – twinges in his back probably from the lock gates being heaved about and the sawing and splitting of wood to leave me a good supply.